If you have just experienced a breakup in your relationship, was it caused by an argument over something? Many times there was a disagreement or argument over what was most likely something ridicules. And it may have been something that you have already disagreed on in the past.
If this was a repeat argument you both should have figured out that maybe you should avoid the subject or at least compromised on the subject. Everyone has their own personnel views and fighting over them will get you nowhere. Try to be open minded to another's point of view.
If you get into an argument, you usually want to win but you can take this as an opportunity to learn more about your partner so the two of you can grow into a stronger relationship with a better understanding as to how the other ticks.
Do your best to keep the volume down, as in try not to yell. And listen to what the other has to say completely so you can understand what their point is. If you find that you are the cause of this argument, be mature enough to admit it and apologies and move on.
If the two of have already broken up it is not too late to fix things and get back together. Give it a little cooling down time and if you think you were the cause of the argument you can call with an apology and leave it at that for the moment. Give the other a chance to accept the apology on their terms which they probably will. When you get back together remember the lesson learned and do not repeat it.
Overcome A Breakup